Newbie ? How public was your spouse's affair?

[MariS]

my WAH-MLCer's 1st A was not public, but I let everyone know about it and that caused more damage than good.

When he walked out last August and began his 2nd fling, it was public, due to the friends that knew what he was doing & were involved. I kept my mouth shut the second time and let WAH-MLCer hang himself.

He is basically back home and we are working on things, even though he doesn't admit or say anything. OW seems to be out of the picture and I do firmly believe in the DB process as well as an A normally fizzing out about 6months. (been there twice)

Sending you a bunch of PMA!