gotcha. yeah, unfortunately I'm not very good at mystery...its hard for me, when asked something directly, to not be fairly specific. something I need to work on.

its funny, when he was asking to switch up visitation last week, I asked what was up (just curious, knee jerk) and he said he was golfing with someone. no more than that. but if I did the same thing, he would ask, "who?" If I evaded and said a friend or whatever, he would push. the only reason I didn't ask, is because I didn't want the answer.

so how do I become a woman of mystery? (serious here). I've gotten better about not letting him goad me into telling him about my IC sessions. Now I need to figure out how to be that woman of mystery.


M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher