I didn't say that hanging on was going to bring him back but have you read the number of posts lately that have WA's for no apparent reason coming back home. No reason other than they have progressed through the tunnel. Each of us have to do what is right for us. That means that each of our journey will look slightly different. OT, just because it worked for you to let go and move on, does not mean that it is the only way or the right way. My way may not fit BFM but your way may not fit either.
BFM, you will know what is right for you. If you are a praying woman, then pray and you will know what to do. Hope this helps.
You do to give good advice. You gave me this advice just today and I thought it was wonderful. Helped to remind me where my focus needs to be, in prayer. Thanks!
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections