Got a new email from the W today. She just said we have a hearing Aug, 13th and the D is going to proceed ( no surprise). She has issues too, and acts as though she was abused but like another poster said, I too have never laid a finger on her. We had a few arguments (probably 3 or 4) where she said "go on and hit me". I never have done that, and to my knowledge she has never been in an abusive relationship but who knows. She has issues too. But like most here, I still love her deeply. But know I can only think that it will happen if it is meant to be.
