I think there is a way to approach it very compassionately and build some good will and send a good message. Once the convo starts, think Listen/Mirror, Validate and Emapthize. Think of it as you want to (1) learn what she was thinking, how she feels and show her you care about that and (2) you want to learn from the exchange between you so you can get along better next time. The substance of the issue is relaly unimportant. Who cares if S9 goes or not? It's about how you two interacted. That's what matters. That is what will repeat itself over and over (on all kinds of different topics). These are the dominoes Michele talks about. You are looking for something different.


M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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