Newbie ? How public was your spouse's affair?

[mkultra]

I am wondering if anyone else feels as humiliated by the infidelity because my H's was so public? My H works in my family business which happens to be a karaoke club. Sounds like a breeding ground for infidelity but I TRULY believed he was above that! I do not work there often (SAHM) but my Mom is the owner and keeps an eye on things every night (Asian stereotype). I guess we were the last ones to find out he was having an affair. I feel humiliated and I do not want to even visit there. My mom says she will not fire him until there is a replacement which might have to me to add insult to injury. I have heard other people mention the OP are neighbours and coworkers which I think would be worse. I wish he was more discreet but he feels entitled, dare I say proud?