On the thing w/ S9 and Dallas, I did apologize to her and told her that I really was not thinking about how him staying w/ me would cause a problem, but I understood her point and I would talk to him.
You think I should go back w/ something like, "was thinking about this and I wanted to tell you that you are absolutely right, no big deal, I will tell S9 he needs to go see his grandparents and cousins, end of story but very nicely" It is really bothering me that she may think I am trying to manipulate our son which I am totally not trying to do. IT came up as we did our pre-bedtime talk and it just went that way.
This is one of her big issues w/ me. That I try to control her going to see her family and make her feel guilty for going.
Totally untrue but I can see how she feels this way so again, should I go there?
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.