Would you guys believe this? Halfway through this afternoon I thought "Well, one 180 would be inviting PW and her BF over for dinner." I actually considered it. I wanted to see 1. if he exists and 2. if the dynamic between her and H really has changed.
Oh, HECK no!!!!!!Are you kidding????? Look, I don't care if she's undergone some miraculous transformation and become Mother Teresa. The issue here is your H putting his "friendship" with her ahead of your marriage. Period.