Cobra:

No, actually I am trying to figure out what makes a good marriage. From all this stuff that we talk about on Mr. Nice Guys and how we often marry someone because the love us, and maybe not for any real good reasons beyond that. So if we throw out the because they love us and throw out sex and desire, what exactly would a Deida man want in a woman? Beyond that, I wonder if a true Deida man should even marry. So if I was single and applied Deida principals, what would I be looking for in a women to marry, or maybe I should NOT marry. This might help to explain where maybe I went wrong the first time.