quick update things have been quiet but then this morning the bombshell, he as actually made a court date to get an order to get us out of his house, yes he as made it a legal document and low and behold the court date is for the day before my son's birthday so what a wonderful present that is that he as received from his dad, to be made homeless, what a prixe xxxxxxx he really is, I never thought he could go this far, is reasoning is that his finances are suffering, well why doesn't he curb the spending on his new wife and his lavish lifestyle, it cant be us that is using his money gawds sake he doesnt even send any money in for groceries for his son, we can't wait to get out of here and are ready to go, I just think it is so crap when he gets a date the day before son's birthday, and then to cap it all one of my friends called to say she had just seen him drive past. probably checking we got his mail