The important thing is that things work out for YOU! Sure, the relationship might crash, but you have the tools at your disposal to make a difference in your kids lives and in your own now. If your spouse is attracted back to you, then great! If not, then you have the tools to have a successful life. It's not the end of the book, just the end of a chapter. The rest of the book is up to you and you can make your life the best read ever! Good luck out in the sand and make sure to empty your boots every morning!
