Considering joint custody? Don't do what I did

[mkultra]

I am not considering joint custody. I will need to get a pit bull lawyer, I know that is not DBing. I do not want my children to sleep somewhere else on a school night. I am actually willing to give vacation and holidays to avoid that. I also want some weekend time. I want what is best for my kids' happiness and education. I have seen so many kids fall behind due to the upheavals of divorce and custody battles and two homes. I do not want to disrespect any non custodial spouses. I know it is painful but my H left and I am the primary caregiver. I want my babies to sleep at home.