How we became separated

[mkultra]

Updated tonight. Well, it is confirmed that my H has been having an affair. That is what I will call it since we are married. I do not care if we are separated. We are married, darn it! It is exactly the way I heard and he had to admit it. Jeez, I hate being right on this one. I was calm and told him I wanted him to be happy. I said I did not know the rules of separation but that we should wait until the divorce for dating. That the kids should not meet anyone he is dating for a least a year. I would not allow my children to be around anyone under the influence of drugs or liquor. (Mom says they are both on drugs-unconfirmed)

He replied it is just dating, he did not cheat while we were living together, it is not serious, he is not happy.

Whatever. He is a liar and a fool.

I said since we were being honest what was up with the weight los and the new vegetarianism. He wants to be fit and she is a vegetarian was his reply. She is only 23 and weighs 100 lbs (according to my mother). He is sick in the head.

The worst part, can it get worse, is that he yelled at me for telling our D6. I never did but she overhead my mom describing her OW. My D6 was hiding behind the couch instead of playing outside. I begged my mom to spare me the details as I was DBing and did not want to listen to gossip. He actualy accused me of talking bad about him.


I said, "If you think it is inappropriate for your own daughter to hear then it is innappropriate for you to do in the first place." Was that bitchy? I thought I handled myself pretty well considering the love of my life and father of my children just admitted to being a walking cliche piece of shite.