I am writing this to get it off my chest. I feel like im going insane. I do feel like im nit picking or a tattle tail by telling you guys/gals the things my w does.

A week ago I did my gal thing in fargo I left home 10 or 11am didnt tell w i was leaving until i left. (At first i thought gal was secrative from w, now I realize she should see me gal'ing).

This week i told her i was going on sat. i did stay a little longer than i planned to. That night inlaws where bringing back d11 from week visit and going to do my b-day gifts. W seemed upset I wasnt home earlier. They arrived 20 min before i got home.

Sun she spends an extreem amount of time w/him on the phone and i leave her alone for the most part. If someone calls for her I will bring the phone to her and walk away while she is talking to om. Seems like that frustrates her. Pretty sure she doestn answer her cell call waiting shen talking to om, so d20 or whoever calls home phone then. then i take phone to w.

I absolutly believe the Abducted By Alien theory now. Before i didnt now im sure.
Today I gave her space, we did our own things. I fell asleep watching racing and woke up 6:00 to late to make supper i planned. Decided to grill pork chops and microwave potatoes. I grilled and did potatoes, cleaned while cooking. When almost done I ran to off sale for an 18 pack. Set table and d11 went up to tell her supper was done. She said she wasnt eating now. I ran up to see whats up and she was cleaning s7 room while talking to om. I said thats pretty rude(meaning not eating w/us) she kept cleaning acted like it had to be done right away. I went and ate w/kids. After we were done and almost ready to leave for bike ride she came down and asks if there is any left or if i wasnt talking to her. I told her i thought about throwing it away. She said fine and started looking for food and I grabbed it out of fridge and gave it to her(the liftovers). then she complained about never getting beer, I said i just got some.
-sorry if this offends womenbut i have to wonder if its that time of the month
-never mind its the alien theory
Almost forgot she compared me going to fargo last week w/out telling her to her not eating supper with family

-she has always liked me in red shirts, my bday gifts where all family gifts but she picked out a red racing shirt. I sorta thought it was a good sign until the way she started acting

I guess i dont have anywhere else to go with this accept i am utterly exausted w/this situatuation.

Well i guess i can go to bed now d11 is in bed. I have to wait for her to go to bed so i can sneek into spare room. d11 and s7 dont know about sitch or me sleeping in spare room.

I welcome any suggestions.

Thank You