He stopped wearing his ring on July 5th. (and he had only been wearing it for less than a year.) He didn't wear it for many years previously.
I KNOW that he believes I will always be here waiting for him. Intellectually, he knows I could move on; but deep down, he knows he hasn't done anything hienous enough to get me to call it quits.
As long as I am wearing that ring, he will know that he still has me to come back to. I think he is someone that needs a challenge. I think I haven't presented enough of a challenge to him and that is why he talks of sassiness and independence.
Argh. Now I am second guessing the ring thing. He doesn't seem to have noticed anyway.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
