Well I got NONE while DB'ing...and some after reconciling...but between the depression and meds that cause ED...well lets say it is always a challenge...
It has gotten better since he is being treated for depression...but when it isn't gonna work not even a double dose of Viagra works...
Getting the closeness back takes time...H has been home almost a year and half...I have to initiate if I want it...I think maybe 3 times he has...but we are still working on things...at least he can reply that he "loves" me too...this is huge as that has only been the past 4 months...
Maybe H needs to get some treatment for depression...if you can talk to his doctor and see if he will talk to him when he goes in...this his what I did to get the ball rolling...
