Hey BethM,

Amen sister! I agree with everything you wrote.

I just got my divorce, and I didn't realize the heavy load I was carrying until now. I always felt fine, and for the most part, I was in good spirits, but now, I don't have that knot in my stomach, and it feels great!

When did you get divorced?

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07