I'm sorry that your sitch is getting worse. I hope that you will find success with your new lawyer. For a while, I thought my ex was going to go for half of everything I own. That would have sucked! My lawyer was a pirana and was prepared to fight. Thank goodness the ex settled for what he did. I know I came out ahead. I will pray that everything will work out in your behalf.
Hey big tuna,
When I hear of situations such as yours, I realize I didn't have it that bad. I don't have children, so I will never have to go through what you just went through with your ex. I can't imagine how hard it is to try to heal from the trauma of divorce when your children are also affected and hurt. My heart goes out to you. I hope you had a fabulous time with your sons this weekend, BTW. Do your sons live with you?
My best to the both of you.
alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07