I cannot remember it for the life of me, it falls in the same catagories as Prozac, Wellbutrin and those types. She takes it for two conditions, one for depression, the other I do not remember the name but she could be in the middle of a football field and feel like everything is closing in around her. When that happens she gets real quiet and looses sight of everything and almost seems fearful of everything. When she has an episode of that it usually lasts anywhere from a day to maybe a week at most. That is why I am wondering if the medication she has been on is not working at all.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
My H was on anti depresants for almost 9 months then about 2 weeks before he left he just stopped taking them. To be honest they weren't doing anything for him. He took it upon himself to stop cold turkey though. He said he doesn't have a depression problem he was just unhappy. Course by now all of that should be out of his system and he shouldn't be going thru whatever happens when you stop like that. I sure hope he can figure out what's going on within him.
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07
She has been on these for about 15 years. Her Dr always changes them every couple years because they supposedly lose the desired affect after using the same one and strength over time. Really hope he changes it this time, even though it would probably take about a month to take effect.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I guess for the last month or so she shows no real emotion, never acts mad or angry, might smile and laugh at times. Does no emotion mean anything or just a normal state when going thru this.
Well another day and another no change in anything, but she does have my laundry again.
Does anyone else have an opinion on her lack of emotion as stated above?
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I think lack of emotion is a bad sign. The saying is "the opposite of love is not hate. It is apathy." But, you have to take into consideration the fact that your wife is on medication that affects her mood. I think the apathy is more related to the medication than it is to you.
I also kind of think that way too. I do hope it is her medication and that something changes in her, as in the past with a change in medication it always takes around a month to show any effects, that was in the good times also. As long as I am not served with a D notice I will just continue to what ever DB'ing I can. Heck even if she has already filed I still will continue.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
Of all the sitch's that I've read here, I think you have the best chance of getting back together with your wife in the near future. I think she has definitely noticed the change in you, and I think she is starting to test the water again. So just keep up doing what you're doing. I think the tide is turning for you.
lol I just found this from you about 10 days ago. I like this post better so I am going to stick with it for now.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
