coping with abstinence???

[BeingMe]

Funny, my problem is the lack of 'it' since our reconciliation! While DB'ing, it was all the time, and now, hardly ever. Piecing sucks! After MLC and reconciliation (if you're lucky, and I'm not sure if you are one way or the other), they go into depression, and the LBS has to put up with that then. This is a process that can take years ... so far, for me, it's been 3 years. First DB'ing, then 2 years Piecing, and lack of intimacy and ML. Sure, there is the kiss hullo and goodbye, and the odd hug, and we hold hands when we go out. But, I want more! Okay, vent over!

I am giving my H space now ... again ... to sort himself out re the depression which seems worse because of his job sitch, and other peripheral stuff. Ugh!

Oh well, I should be grateful, and I am to a certain degree, but getting less so as the months go by, and nothing really changes, except me (and, that may be the problem ... I was used to the little I got out of our M before the A, but now that I have worked on myself, and happy with me, I want and expect more.)

I guess, timing is everything.