New to DB, need guidance

[Nomopo]

Hi Bella. Thanks for visiting my thread. Sorry you are hurting so much and having such a hard time, but I am glad you found this site. DB principles are a life saver and they can really help you a lot (for your M and for yourself). I would highly recommend that you get Divorce Remedy instead of DB. It is a much better re-write. Can you check it out from the library to start? Also, ch. 1 is free on the home page. Also, on one of my earlier threads (my 5th one? See the links to my old threads in the first post on my current thread), there is my personal DB Plan. Part II is an outline summary of DR. It is brief, but could help. And Part III are inspirational quotes to keep me (you?) going.

You need to really try to focus on yourself. This will give you the best chance to save your M and to lead the life you want/deserve even if your M fails.

Finally, check out the thread by SDFoundGirl that has JEnJam's Top Ten DB Tips. It is a great summary of DB prinicples. Let me know if you can't find it.

Hugs,
Nomopo

PS - Also, keep reading other threads, and keep posting here and on other people's threads. The more friends you make, the more visitors you will have. And commenting on other people's threads helps you learn.