man that is rough about the pda phone pic's. i can only imagine, oh wait i snooped w's phone one night. not good. how i handle it is i stay out of her communication lines, i don't want to see it i don't want to know it. why, well i don't want to face it such that she is upset and agrees out of guilt. i want the women that is committed and tells me to clear the air and make things right.
sorry your hurting, keep db'ing and i don't think you were out of line, considering the sitch. just keep db'ing and do all you can. your a cop, good work, appreciate that. i don't think i could do that, i'd be suspended for something so fast, haha. i could never handle the control that comes along with that. it just looks like too much fun. i can only imagine when you get the real idiots, but probably happens every day.
