Hi to all in the "What Now" forum. I'm not a very frequent poster here at "DB". I did have a post over in "beginners", and recieved great advice and encouragement, but that thread seems to have run its course. After 8 months of seperation I feel I've graduated to What Now? Having not seen or heard from my family in over 2 months, the only communication being letters from W's lawyer to mine, I'm at the point now where the "Situation Hopeless" that I find myself in suggests that it's time to admit to myself that this sitch can not be resolved. However, not wanting to accept defeat, because I still believe that the M could be stronger if we could overcome this sitch and begin communicating, I was hoping someone has been where I am today and offer a little hope. Any honest feedback, even if that means a 2x4 upside my head, would be appreciated. Txs Al.