Nikki,
Sorry to see that things aren't going easier for you. I can only say that it appears that you may need to refocus on YOU! How is your GALing going?

Also, have you been asking yourself "what will bring me closer to my goals?" when dealing with these issues? I find this to be a very helpful thought process. Sometimes, you will also realize that your goals need to be revised for your changing sitch.

Hope this gets you thinking about ways to break out of this stalemate.

SD

Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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