Madonna/Whore Complex (part 7)

[Heywyre]

I know exactly what you mean because I am dealing with the exact same thing. H has always been somewhat arrogant (but he doesn't fool me, the arrogance is is total coverup for his insecurities)

My H is a total avoider too and going any further to address what needs to really be done would be like defeat to him. I am hoping the ST can address it so as to help him see it in a different light, as opposed to I'm right you're wrong.

I am hoping to bring the "subject" up tomorrow and see what kind of reaction/response I get from ST and from H - I will be sure to let you know. I am also hoping to bring it up slightly this evening so at least it will be out in the open. He mentioned something about "not needing" to go for counselling anymore but would "for my sake" which is, once again, a total copout. However, if he can save face by saying, in his mind "I am only doing this for my W because she still needs the counselling" then so be it. Whatever works but I know in my heart we BOTH need to continue on this path for a while yet