Walking in a minefield

[BeingMe]

You are the only one who knows when it's time to walk. We all have different boundaries, different histories, and varying levels of pain dished out by our WAS's, so don't feel bad for a decision you made that you think is right for you and your son.

DB'ing is not only for saving your M, but saving or building a better you (sometimes, that means rediscovering the person you were when your met your W, or it means lots of self analysis, and sometimes it leads to wanting out of the M, or whatever ... only you can say), and building a better you. Thereby, being able to have a better R in the future, with your W or with someone else.

Anyway, who are any of us here to judge you. No-one can kick you off the BB, and there are, in fact, forums on this BB for those who are separated, or thinking of leaving, or divorced and moving on (just check the Forum List). We are all at different stages of our journeys through life, so no one can say what is best for you and your sitch.

Good luck and take care.