I spent most of the day packing boxes of things for H. As I expected, he really doesn't want to take much. He is leaving a lot of his things for the kids, which is good. He doesn't really want his tools, but I know I have to go through them all at some time to organize them. I resent the fact that I am the one stuck with all this work, but I am not really surprised. The whole point of his crisis is to run away from responsibility. It still seems surreal.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.