I just feel sorry for D3, it is not about me anymore. He is a good dad but seems to have just got lost along the way. He does make sure that he has D3 when arranged and picks her up on time etc and he has always made sure that he provides the money that we agreed to support D3. I did tell him last weekend that he is the only one in control of the relationship he has with D3, i just hope that he will start to spend some quality time with her.
Also D3 told me once again today that she slept in my husbands and Ow's bed for part of the night, in her words when it was dark. That tells me that she did not just go in, in the morning. I have asked husband about this before as he knows that it is completley not acceptable for D3 to be in their bed. He assured me that it was not happening and that he respected her too much to allow that to happen. I want to beleive him but D3 has said this on a number of occasions and do wonder, does anyone have any thoughts on this?.
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
