Thanks Max- I was starting to feel like I was talking to myself and all alone. I took my ring off yesterday and didn't cry or anything. I had gone thru some old posts of mine on a different board and actually managed to get myself good and mad at his poor behavior. He got home around 6ish and plopped down on the couch to watch tv. I made a pan dinner and at first didnt offer him any. heh. He comes over and peers in the pan "Whatcha making?" "General Tso's chicken." "Oh...looks good." I waited til it was all the way done before saying "Oh-Did you want to have some?"
We both were on the couch watching tv and I was in a pretty good mood. Luckily we were watching comedy so it was easy to enjoy myself. Anyway, I was laughing and being silly and he looked at me in a funny way. Then he got flirty. Then...well, then we all know what happened.
Afterwards he said "Do we still have that movie?" "Yes" "We should watch it tonight." So we ended up laying in bed watching a movie, eating ice cream and snuggling.
What he *doesn't* know is that once he moves out, he will have a rude awakening if he tries to come over here at 2am for booty call. The ONLY way he will be 'allowed' is if he takes me out on a date first. And, even then, I'm not so sure.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing