I finally got away from that. I spent all last year letting her tear me down. I don't hang out with people who are that disrespectful to me repeatedly." [in hindsight what a funny comment given H's total lack of respect towards me right now huh??
The difference is that it appears your H still has remnants of alien behavior & you have to deal with it b/c you want to be married to him. That other clueless, classless, misdirected piece of work only serves to undermine your M & you don't need to hang out with her.
I know you'll figure out the best way to proceed. I've been following much of how you have so far & taking notes.
