The other way to have/establish contact in my opinion begins with the kids. If there are issues that he should know about, then by all means let him know what is going on.
And keep him updated about once a week (or whatever you feel is proper) about the issue.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
