Waltzing again -one decision at a time!

[TwinDragon]

Matilda, I agree with Slowly. We need to be in control of our lives and not let the EX's encroach their control on us.

Even after all the time that I have been separated and all the growth I've done. I found that EX still has some control over me and it is I that is allowing it.

I've been dating and one thought that occured to me. I wanted to rub the fact that my "new" woman is prettier, wealthier, smarter, and better than the EX. I realized this is normal thinking, but it shows that she still has some control over me. I had to stop that type of thinking.

I just need to live my life great and soar. This is controlling my life and who cares what EX thinks or does unless it effects my daughters.

Have a good time with your friend.

TD