I think it is sad when something gets in the way that you cannot share a lose together. You both loved her together, why can't you grieve together? That is just wrong. I guess he would think that was weak or that he needed you for something. BS! Maybe he will reconsider when it happens to let you in, even just a little. Let him know that you are hurting too.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
