This takes a long time. Don't give up!! My H has been in and out of the FOG for 5 years. I understand the "insane" years because he went back and forth with them twice. He's been his old self now for about 6 months, but still "can't do this". We live a parallel life "as friends". As with you, I don't call him, he calls me, he still does his own thing at times, he calls several times a day from work to "check in". I don't push.
I've moved on with my life, new house, new job, new attitude...... This whole cylce takes time. Give yourself a break from the drama and do for you.......the rest will come!!
