Hi Dave, Yes it is really amazing how similar a lot of situations are. It is such a shame we have all ended up in this situation. I am so glad I found this life line as it makes it so much easier to have support from people who know exactly what you are going through and to get advise on what to do or not to do. Have you given your W any of the books to read? I was wondering whether to give my H DB to read although I don't want him to know what I am doing. He came here on the weekend to get his things and I was so positive and did what the books recommend. He looked awful, has lost a lot of weight and didn't seem very happy, although that was why he left as he wasn't happy. I did feel really bad after he left, it felt like bomb day all over again. But at least he is talking to me even if it is about financial stuff. I am trying really hard to GAL and be proactive about our bad financial situation so hopefully he will notice the changes. He isn't coming back until Sept now so it will only be phone or email contact, which sucks. I will continue to check in to see how your sitch is going.
Me 45 H 45 D 27 Not living at home D 21 At home S 19 At home D 17 At home M 22yrs Togther 25yrs Bomb 17 July 2007
