Atlas, you had a pretty good evening. I only wish my w would want to be so close. every time we have a chance to be close, she sabotages it. It becomes quite depressing and frustrating. I know people on this board say that it is better that we don't have kids, but it has always been so important to me, that i feel like I am missing out on having what I have always wanted.
It is good that she is recognizing that you have been giving her space... I only wish my W would say anything about "us"... so depressing... As far as the man thing goes... good luck with that, I hate trying to figure out how that is done.
Have a nice smooth drink for me... I have decided that I had enough tonight... (don't get the wrong idea, I am talking about I had 6 or so over 4 hours) not that big a deal, just hate where I am. Guess I can always strive to get to the point you are at, or some of these other successful DB'ers that make it and get back to where they want to be.
Hope everyone has a nice evening.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
