"tell her the problem, ask for her advice, work on a solution together"
ohhhh. good advice. Thanks. I am sure it will serve my purpose better to not put this as some sort of ultimatum. Diplomicy, nice guy attitude might go far. Sell the idea as to how she may benifit too? hmmmmmmmmm
Thanks atlas more pondering ahead......
Not tonight though am playing a little online poker ....(she hated when I did that.....but oh well she aint here to gripe about it! ha!!)
