ladies, please if you have advice or thoughts let me know.
so after throwing my own self righteous pity party at the divorce bbg tonight, and then sitting her and thinking things suck, w calls.
she was so upbeat. told me how her night with rick, no worries he is her co-worker, 65, w is 31, he is dying of emphazemia (sp?) 3rd stage and carries around his meds and oxygen tank. not to worried. but she goes on to say how it was horrible, he got totally wasted, he fell down in the restaurant as they were leaving. she offered to pay for a cab and he wouldn't have it. i just listened. so she is laughing about this but hopeing at the same time he doesn't kill someone. then i offered advice, maybe you should call to make sure he is alright and got home, stopped myself and apologized for offering advice, and said i'm sorry that you had a bad evening, i was really hoping you would have some fun.
then she says well i'm almost off the highway, not far from where i live, we live pretty close, she says can i come over, i say sure. then she backs out and says she just need to go home and go to bed.
then she says "i really appreciate how you have given me space and are alright with me going out, it means a lot, even though all my friends i have made are idiots."
then she goes on to say that she wants to see her two boys tomorrw and spend the day with them. i'm the second boy by the way. need to work on that man thing. i ask her what she has in mind, she says we will figure it out, i just would really like you two to come over when you get up. i said i wanted her to get some sleep, controlling i know. but she agreed and said lets make it 1030 so i can rest.
w says can't wait to see you tomorrow, we'll have a good time, good night.
well the pity party is now on cloud 9. god i'm so close i can taste it. well drinking tonight, luckily when she called i have had only 2, i have been pretty good with that lately, but i need to stop it all together. kind of hard when w wants to have drinks with me. arrgh.
