new attitude.....it is a catch 22 situation. If I leave things as they are I am doomed. If I go to sell it may take quite some time, there are about 30 houses for sale in my 10 block area. What I would really like to do is get her to sign off, and attempt to refinance, and roll my cc debt up into it, then I could go it alone.
The catch 22 is, I cannot pull a refiy without her sig as it stands. She will not sign that for sure. Yet to go it alone, I will have to get her to sign off, and probably become legally seperated....... not good for DBing.
I really want from her is to help with mortgage until sold, or sign off. Am I being unreasonable???
