I'm just going be what my SIL said. Her being the one that kicked her H out is on the same side of WAS. She said even if she is feeling positive or thinking just maybe she'd never let him know because he'd jump all over it as a sign she's ready to take him back and when that doesn't happen then he'd just get mad and want to know why she was being nice.
This is our 2nd seperation and about #5 that he's left the house. All of the last 4 times he's come back. Our MC asked me when he started acting up again if it felt the same as the last times. At the time I said yeah. Of course then he hadn't gone out and leased an apartment. My stepfather asked me once why I think this time is any different then the others. I really don't know that is it. It just seems more final because he has his own place. But on the flip side of that he couldn't go to his parents house this time because he stopped talking to them a coulple years ago...
W: 33 H: 37 SS: 14 S: 7 S: 3 married 08/09/97 Seperated 11/02 05/07 H moved back 8/26/07