I just found your new thread and had to say thanks for the laughs. Boob shirts, botox, cats, etc! Our cat does the same swatting thing when he wants to be fed.
I think the card idea is a great one, but I agree with ItsKat (I think it was her) who said not to add the part about not being able to make it without her. Too needy.
It sounds like things are going well for you and W.