Just to let ya know. It was a completely different circumstance with me. My W had the affair. But when I found out I just got in my old truck and started driving. I drove out to the coast and sat there for a few hours. Came home about 2:00 am. Just needed to get away. I'm sure that is what your H is doing. Trying to get his head straight. He is responsible for his own actions
Don’t worry; I would not answer the phone. Wait until he gets home.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know