Why do these things happen Vlll

[sadhearted]

Yeah I saw my H cry beginning of this week but that is because of his grandma.


See I was told if my H were to cry or make a positive comment then it would show he's confused and he doesn't know what he wants. And at this point it's too soon for him to admit that just maybe he made a mistake. Or maybe he's not ready to admit it so says the negative things and acts like he could care less. But it's just a front because he can't let me know how he's really feeling. I don't know if all WAS's are like this. This came from my SIL who is seperated (her choice).

Example being: Early on my H compared our relationship to part of Charlie Brown where a girl is holding a football he runs at it to kick and she drops the ball. This happens a few times. Finally Charlie says he isn't going to do it anymore because she won't hold the ball. She convinces him she will so he goes running again but she drops it again. He told me he wasn't ready to kick the ball much less run at it. The same night he told me this he told my SIL he wanted to kick the ball.

Now this was over a month ago so who knows how he feels now but you get what I'm trying to say (I hope).


I'd offer you tissues but I don't have any. I'm having to use toilet paper or paper towels....