Quick update: H and I had a long R talk Friday night, which I started (bad Dbing, I know!). I had to say something about a remark he made on the phone that afternoon. He had said "I'm miserable, you're miserable." and I had to let him know that I'm not miserable. That led to a long talk, with some defending on my part, some validating, and just talking. It was actually very nice, like talking to my old H.
Then we watched a movie together on tv.
When I said goodnight and started to go upstairs he said "come here" and he gave me a huge hug. SO nice. Baby steps.
