Gosh I am so sorry that both of you find yourselves in similar places...it is doubly hard not only going through the MLC with your H but to also find someone here who breaks your heart as well.
Lissett, I think it is kind of you not to bash the other person on the board...very classy. I think that is a testament to who you are...I think that is why you are sooo loved on this forum...because you are love and sunshine. The other person on the board I am sure was so attracted to you...like a bee to honey...
I know how much the both of you must hurt...feeling like you are nothing to the person that told you how much you meant...
But you are both strong...and again, I think that is why the men on the board were attracted to you both...because you are strong in ways they are not. Lissett, you have made the decision to go NC and I think that is a good decision. You DO need to be alone...with your thoughts...with no one around to cloud the water.
You will both learn...and live and you will find the love that you dream about...the love you yearn for. One day all those who lost you will feel sad for the love they could have had...
Fools.
Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller