Hi, I can kind of identify with your W. Do you think she may be having MLC? You said you had a problem turning 60 and I noticed her age....plus now she is interested in a man younger than her. Has she given you any other reasons except you have not filled her emotional needs? It seems there should be more to all of this.

I have gone through similar sit and my husband is 4 years older than me. Whenever I looked at him, it reminded me that we were not so young anymore and it was hard for me to cope. It was very flattering when younger men would come on to me. I was vulnerable to their lies and flirtation.

How old was she when you married her?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!