Nikki-- I don't get how any H thinks we can be friends with the PW. They have to be out of their minds. My H has continually brought up how I wasn't nice to her, excluded her because of all the kids she has, etc. One of the convos we had about this woman (last summer?) was, how can you be friends with someone who so clearly doesn't like me? I even had her over to my house to talk to her about it. I was an idiot.
No, there is nothing wrong with you drawing this line. I was really hoping that he was going to follow up on that other job he was looking at...
At some point, he is going to realize that he either wants to be friends with this woman, OR be happily married to you. It is not going to work both ways.
Are you going to find a place to stay tonight? Call if you need to...
