I do not know how to get in contact with you. You do know who I am, I have just changed my username for this post. I miss your updates, and I am so very sorry about your grandmother. I want to say thank you for all that you have done. I do hope you are reading this. Or I hope that someone calls you and tells you to check the board. I became a better mother b/c of you. I uses to just let my H come and go as he pleased never really knowing how horrible it was for my kids. And you always took such a strong stand, standing behing your children. Thank you for that. I am not a troll, I am someone who posts here all the time. I have fallen for someone on the board. I am sick to my stomach over it. I know the same thing happened to you, and you did not get the back lash, that so many here have gotten in the past. It is b/c you are an honest person. If you can please post here. And tell me what I should do. I know this sounds desperate, and I know that you wanted all of this to die down, and I know that are not posting anymore. You might figure our who I am, b/c i have emailed you before. I am sorry to be rude in anyway, I just wanted an update on how you are, and how you are handling the no contact with the person from the board. thank you