VMs show no perceptible increase in frequency. I doubt she wants anything more to do with me than is absolutely necessary at this point, and I take all reasonable responsibility for that.
Doubt I will be taking any friends along on the trip. The options I'm currently considering are: Solo camp out (lowest cost, probably best option), Road trip to the beach (marginally higher cost, risk of a no-objective-met letdown), or hopping a flight to Vegas (highest cost, never been, possible chance to show off my new found "poker face").
Going dark at this point isn't really an option: It's a necessity. I will probably have to see her on Wednesday of this week, and if I manage to get throught that without spitting in her face, I will consider it a major victory (kind of kidding, kind of not).
On the upside, S seeems to be doing a bit better. I took him to the mall earlier, and to one of his favorite stores. Even got him a small gift, he really seems to like it. As for tonight, I'm gonna take him out to dinner someplace new to him, not sure where yet. Tomorrow, if he is up to it (and I think he will be), we are going to a major local attraction that W and I have been to once, and had planned on taking S to before she laid waste to the family we could have been (yes, I'm blaming: Cut me a little slack, okay?).
As an aside, during this morning's call I heard her tell S that she was at MIL's house. For some reason, I can't seem to get that out of my head. I don't want to care, but: Did she lie to S? Is she staying there while OM is in town? If so, why? Is OM staying there?
