Wow. H just came by the house because he forgot the computer cord. He was completely civil as was I. We didn't fight, and he asked about the AC. I told him I bought a plane ticket to go home, this trip has been planned for about 6 months and we were supposed to go together. He is not going now. I wanted to tell him in case he saw it on the bank account. He has been doing very good about not spending money and he told me he would let me know before he spent any...so I thought I should do the same. He said that was fine and he thought I got a really good deal on the ticket. He told me a little bit about work and I asked him to help me do hook something up to the TV. That was it and then he left. I was trying to do a 180 and not fight with him or cry when he was here. That was the first civil conversation we have had in a month. I am pretty proud of myself.